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There are signs now, when you walk into a V.A. hospital, and possibly other government buildings.
The hospital sign reads: “Sexual harassment will not be tolerated whatsoever, and this includes ‘whistling,’ ‘catcalling,’ and ‘staring.’”  The online definition (Google) of sexual harassment, when it comes to staring is: “Leering, which is a sly, lascivious look or sideways glance suggesting a sexual interest or malicious intent, is an unwelcome and persistent kind of staring that constitutes harassment.”  There isn’t much question when it comes to whistling and catcalling, but staring?

At what point is the foundation of the harassment not based on the intent of the person doing the looking?  How is intent to be judged without the input of the person accused of such a thing?  How do illogical and seemingly legally unfounded warning signs end up on the walls of U.S. government buildings?  The anti-harassment sign quoted from here is all over the walls and entrance of the V.A. hospital building in North Chicago.  How is the phrase enforced, or it is?  How might the questioning go if somebody was stopped and accosted for staring?  How can you know what another person is thinking unless some action or statement, or even writing, follows the actions?  One wonders if the harassments listed apply only to men with respect to women or whether that’s men to men, women to men, women to women, or what?

Human beings have a long way to go when it comes to communication through signs.  Signs, for example, that read “Slow down” in residential neighborhoods when someone is already moving at only 2 miles per hour or so. Speed signs that people have come to think of as the only and right speed a car in front of them must drive, not reflect on the fact that the sign indicates a maximum, not a recommendation.  While at work or out in public do not whistle, do not speak out loud to anyone you don’t’ know and, for God’s sake, don’t look at anybody for too long.  What is the American culture coming to?

The birds are still gone.
Not one seagull has returned to Lake Geneva.  Not one, since the early days of spring, when some sickly ones showed up for one day, while a duck was dying on the beach nearby.  Two ducks have shown up with eight tiny ducklings.  That was two weeks ago.  Now the two ducks have only two ducklings left.  What happened to the other six?  No green, or other colored, slime has been detected along the shores of Geneva Lake anywhere.

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